Shittersfull said:
I couldn't care less about hip to waste ratio, or any of those other metrics. Wemon get judged on this sort of thing constantly. Social media keeps steering people towards a certian look, and it pathetic. Growing up I was brainwashed into believing that rail skinny blonde's with giant fake tits were whats attractive. At other points obesity was the glamorized body. Cloths going in and out of fashion is silly enough — what you like is what's in style for you. Body shapes going in and out of fashion is a different thing altogether, and it's wrecking people. There's a limit to how much you can control your shape anyway. Everyone's shape is their own. When you feal right you feal right. And if you need to look a particular way in order to feal right, maybe the answer is to surround yourself with people who do more for your self esteem? You've dropped a heap of wieght — that makes you a bad ass in my book. Your shape is none of my business. Just be happy with whatever version of you that you're after.